Death.

Hey y'all,

The topic of death is one i hate dealing with. I hate death, if it were up to me, I would make sure that we all live forever and never die, and if we 'die' we are completely wiped from each others memory because lets face it, how does on say goodbye, or get closure. I really have no clue. It's hard to watch the people we love suffer because of death, but what to do. That's what life is. We live, we die, some die earlier, some later in life, but all in all, one way or another we all are headed toward it.

I take this chance to pray for the soul of one taken too soon, David Imani Machoka. I pray for his family, may they find peace in this trying time. God be with you.

Nekh.

An Ethiopian Wedding Reception.

Check out this vid i took with ma phone of the reception of an Ethiopian wedding. Awesome stuff. These guys traditional dancing literally involves jumping up and down, I was in AWE! but I have to say that that was the most fun i have had in a while at any wedding.

Nekh.

Birthday surprises.

When its your pals b-day and you are tying to surprise them and they keep asking, 'What has my boyfriend planned for my b-day?' and you have to lie to them and tell them that you have no idea what is being planned... you feel bad that you are lying to them but you feel even worse that you want to actually lock them in a closet of sorts so that you can make sure that the surprise b-day thingy goes according to plan... Urg! I feel mind is going to explode literally, am so glad that birthdays are once a year, and that i plan only a few b-day celebrations, hail all event planners, i respect your craft.

Nekh.

Friends.

Lets talk friends, a friend of mine once told me that true friends are the ones who are always there even when you do not want them to, they take your stuff without borrowing, they feel at home in your place more than they do, get really angry for you (extremely angry!) they always find a way to piss you off... but believe you me, you always come back, and they always come back, cuz at the end of the day you love them, and they you.

Ask yourself, if you ever killed some1, and had to bury the body (God forbid!), who would you call. The person you think about is probably your closest friend, cuz lets admit that that's a whole load of skeleton! And if you are willing to share the skeleton with a person, then surely you trust them, you can call them, 'my person'.

Find your true pals, do not trust a wolf in sheep skin. I came to learn that water can be thicker than blood, if you know what i mean.

Nekh.

Shallow minds.

Hey ya'll,
Its been a while, am great. I have been up and about... seen things, heard things... done things, needless to say, its been a WHILE.

i needed to share this, so this weekend i attended a friends birthday party and this conversation happened at some point in the night between my sister and a certain unmentionable, lets call her B1 i.e BITCH NO 1,

(B1 is playing rock music off her phone when sister approaches her.)
Sister:        Hey, do you have some metal.
B1:           You listen to metal?!
Sister:       Yeah. Why?
B1:           So which cult are you in?!
Sister:       None!
B1:           It's only a matter of time, don't talk to me!

I was amazed by how shallow this girl was just because my sister listens to metal, she is in cult?! Wow, and the girl is a university graduate, to think education and experiencing diverse cultures through the education systems is suppose to enlighten folk.

I was pissed, but now, i feel that she is just shallow, that is why i will gladly call her a shallow bitch with an attitude from hell to say the least.

Nekh out.

Sad World.

The world can be a sad place. I really was heartbroken when i heard the news of the Boston marathon. It hurts to think that most people involved in these marathons are peace loving philanthropists who most of the times run to raise money for a cause. The person who planted that bomb is a heartless individual. It sucks that the world could have such selfish people. I pray for those hurt i the bombing, their families and friends, and those who died for their souls to rest and that their families and friends find peace. And finally that justice be served.
Nekh.

Careful what you pray for.

Hey,
i was charting with a pal on the phone yesterday and i actually realized something.... God actually gives you what you ask for. Its no secrete that i read the 50 Shades of grey. So i got so carried away i decided that i want a guy who is just like Christian Grey... Loving, and rich and who will only have eyes for me. of course without the 'kinky fuckery'... so i decided to pray on it.and two weeks after praying on it... i meet a guy at a local bar. He asked for ,my number and i gave him. We chatted for a while, like 3 weeks and then i finally agreed to go out on a date with the guy.

The date started well, i looked great in a little black dress and knee high boots. i was fashionably late... he did not mind. the date was fine, he seemed like a nice guy, but things took a turn when he started mentioning rules. He said that i should stop eating fries, did not believe me when i said that i only had fries once a week. Then came a whole other list of rules, then i told him that i would forget them and he said that he would send me  a memo of the rules to out dating... and i started to think.. who does this guy remind me of.... CHRISTIAN GREY! That was my queue to run like crazy...

So be careful what you pray for. Now i want a Gabriel... from Gabriel's Inferno...

Nekh.